Stay away until the gajah dies and always sleep in a different room. Or, anda could befriend the gajah and anda could be room mates atau he could be your pet.
Those things are pretty easy to get use to. It just takes some time. The gajah may ask anda if anda have any raisins. Make sure anda give him them one oleh one so he doesn't choke. Caution. He may spit them out if he doesn't like the raisins.