who thinks tht popualar people r the meanist?? all the not so populer people are the nicest and have the most personality and fun!! my friend felt sad tht she werent so populer its annoying! wot do u think?? i think its completly unfair

I agree that I think populer people are the meanest. All the populars in my school are complete b*tches, including the men!!!
Me and my friends aren't populer but we laugh a hell of a lot lebih and our friendship doesn't reside on who shagged who atau whatever someone done at the weekend.
The populer ones are only populer because they don't give others the chance and they have the same personality (drinking at the weekends, new bf every night)
I have loads of friends too but we're not populer and we don't wanna be, we have a much better time just us and we don't need to worry about anyone making rumours up about us.
No offense to any populars on this, it's just taken from the people in my school.

Excuse me "Unpopular-people"!!
Get a fucking grip!! anda are so self-contradictory when anda say that populer people are the meanest. anda are judging people!! Just because anda can't get enough friends to be so called "popular", then anda have to disparage other people! Well, have anda ever thought about that they're populer for a reason? MAYBE it is because of their sense of humor, MAYBE its because they're nice to their friends! This is harassment, shame on you!!

Uhhh...I really don't know...



Well,some populer people in my school are nice. I mean they never gave anda a chance and that is mostly because they are shy. But does that mean that anda don't have to give THEM a chance? Most populer girls seem mean but deep,deep inside of them;who knows? Maybe they want to be friends. Some of anda people are just being judgemental. Just because in a lot T.V shows the populer people are mean,it doesn't mean that they are in your school. Please,try giving them a chance. anda know why? Because I am friends with a VERY nice girl and guess what? She is VERY popular. All I ask is for anda guys to give them a chane. People who are being judgemental:I think that YOUR being unfair.




And did anda guys see that? I just made my pertanyaan with no swearing atau anything mean in it and expressed my opinion in it unlike most of the other people who just type in hadiah and yell.

I'm part of the populer group, so...

while some of us are mean, there are still a lot of us who are nice and open to everyone. Even lots of the populer guys are like that. At least at my school. I'm onlyy mean to others if I have a good reason to not like them. But I cinta nerds, they're really funny. My best guy friend is a total nerd. =]

I agree, sometimes populer people can really be mean, and that IS because they're confident... but in the wrong sort of way. There are some populer people who are really nice and try to include you. But there are also quite few who bully their way to the top...

Thank goodness that on fanpop evrybody's popular... EXCEPT the mean ones.

i agree with all of you's cool people are very mean

soo true.everyone hates the populer people in my school cause their all bitchy.the other hari this slore was getting paper and pushed me so she could get it im like excuse me can u not do tht.

Some populer kids at my school are nice, but I always wondered how most got any friends when they aren't very nice at all.
They're not better people than us. I think just one of my friends is nicer than half of them. We have the talent.

Well, not all populer people are mean, but sometimes, yes, it does seem that way. At my school, most of the populer people are mean. A couple are nice however.
I still don't think we should stereotype all populer people as being mean.

populer people are used to getting things handed to them on a silver plate. They think they're "it" - that they're above everyone else.
But that won't last. Ever heard of big ikan in a small pond?? When they leave for college they'll soon find out that they're not as brilliant as they thought they were!!

I know some really horrible populer people. The kind of people who completely disregard your feelings and slag anda off to their friends in your presence. I wish they knew how much I hate them, but I'm too nice a person to act the way they do. I despise them from afar.

I totally agree! The "popular" people in my school act like they're sooo much better then everyone else and have to rub it in their noses. They do that thing where they act like they've been there, done that and know everything there is to know about everything. They start there own "thing" as well, this group of girls in my school some how developed, what I would call a fetish, over beavers. They berkata it all the time, and of course because my school is mostly made up of, what I like to call "sheople" it automatically became a common word for "cool". I sh** anda not.

well i agree in some ways,but the only reason these people are so called 'popular' is because everyone either hates them -which gives them a lot of public eye,or looks up to them because they look nice and confident.
They anoy me most of the time. me and my friends arent exactly popular,we just like to keep to ourselves,but like i say everyone knows us because were all nice and like to have a good time,they dont like us for all the wrong reasons,even though some are nice but thats not the point.
so called 'un-popular' people dont have to be like everyone else,its right be who anda are inside!! I was put up to that task years ago,we can all be Hot and Smart in one without having stupid cliques but this hating stuff will never change,people make fun of 'emos' and even 'preps',its just unfair that these labels take over school,its like there peoples own lives....
If anda feel sad about wanting to be like one,then dont:)Its better to say in your own lingkaran of friends who like anda for who anda are even if theres only a few.Most people want to be friends with them to boost there image anyway.Sometimes it gets pretty sad:)

i wont lie im populer and i can be a bitch,but most of the time its for a reason

the girls can be nice.....i dont really know them as close friends but the guys can be such jerks!!!

Well it may seem that way but in all reality the unpopluar have just as many buttholes as populer people do. When I went to school I foun that a lot of the butts came from the unpopular crowd.
I don't think it'd be fair nor corect to say populer people are lebih butts than unpopular.

i think girls are just bitchy in general personally speaking i think its just how we are made!!:-)but in my school i wouldnt say there is any one group of people who are populer not everyone likes the same people, and i think its very unfair that when anda go to school everyone is divided up into groups anywayz i think its sad :-(

well i duno, bt i dnt no y people r getting so worked up about it god it only a pertanyaan and u cn ask any pertanyaan u wnt on here, thts the point of the acak in the title. y cnt anda just put ur opinion down without being bitchy to other people and start getting all personal? it always turns ito an argument here and may i just say myself wot a bloomin STUPID thing to get in an argument about! man u guys sheesh lol

maybe mean peaple are 'popular' as peaple fear them .. just maybe

well i dont really think populer people are ALWAYS mean. it depends on who they are..their personality. they can be if their personality is mean atau something but it doesnt mean they have to be. i am populer and have a lot of populer friends and really non of them are mean. but they can be mean because of their confidence and popularity they may just gotten used to being so good atau something. but many people have different opinions about it soo yeah!:) and cinta anykind of person like nerds atau something..i just care bout their personality

Well i can't say much for the general public atau about other schools etc.
But when i was in school the 'popular' crowd as you've named it, where mostly people who had all the new gadgets and clothes. The 'popular' girls in my school would always plaster themselves in make-up, dye their hair blonde and wear berwarna merah muda, merah muda and golddigger outfits and reebok/nike and all those named brands. It's true that they can be exceptionally mean, i myself have suffered under their tyranny. When i was in school they used to bully me because i was different. I didn't dye my hair, i wore the school uniform, i didn't go to school in trainers, i always had my work in on time and therefore i was labelled 'un-popular' because i made an effort until i got into my 3rd tahun when i though what's the point?
However, even though i suffered under these people calling me names, pushing me down in the playground etc, i had a vast lingkaran of friends, some who were even friends with them. Not all populer people are mean.
Anyone can be mean, in fact we all are and anyone who says they have never been mean is a liar in my eyes.
A pattern i've discovered when i was in school and even now i see it when i go to work atau go shopping etc is that any person on their own are polite, will chat to you, help anda out. But as soon as they're backed up oleh their friends they get all 'hard-core' and act 'cool'.
In my opinion it's not about how confident they are, it's about how they want to see themselves and how they want their friends to see them.

I'm going to tell anda about a girl named Roxanne who was in the same math class as me and was 'popular'. She was beautiful, funny and always made time to come talk to me even with her friends. Her friends used to say, right in front of me, 'why are anda talking to her?' and a credit to Roxanne she always replied 'because i like her.' Roxanne was one of the populer crowd but she was extremely nice.
Another girl called Katrina who was also in the same math class was popular, and she picked and bullied me relentlessly for 3 years until one hari i just snapped and beat her up. I'm not proud of that fact, in fact i look back on it now and think i could have done better, i could have walked away. But from that moment on Katrina never touched me, she never called me names and anda know why? Because she was scared of me. And that broke my heart. She didn't want to bully me which was good, but she also didn't want to be my friend. Bullies are not nice. populer atau un-popular, goth, emo, prep, chav, skater whatever the label, people are people and in every single group anda will have nice people and mean people. anda just have to find them and make an effort to get them to know anda better.