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 Dansea08 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Dansea08 said:
Alright well for those that have read my various comments over the time I've been on Fanpop,I would think you guys don't see me as mean because I try not to hurt other people's feelings and respect other people's opinions and I would think that when I write my comments its somewhat graceful and not directed at any fan even if I express my disagreement with them.With that said,I've had to deal with a certain Clay/Quinn fan who I believe really took offense to something I wrote in one of the picks that the Clay/Quinn fan posted. The link to that comment is below....

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Reading my comment,does it seem as if I'm personally attacking a fan? Because the same day I posted the comment I got a nasty reply on my inbox which I could never understand the point of it. It was a big Clay/Quinn and Shantel fan and obviously my comments regarding them weren't positive but instead of replying and explaining why they think Clay/Quinn are amazing together or that Shantel was an amazing actress,they instead had to cuss me out.I was shocked because I would never send any fan a message like the way this person sent me.It was so unnecessary and I did my best to explain to this person that the characters they were referring to are FICTIONAL and its really unnecessary to cuss me out because I happen to not have the same view as them.But sadly when they replied to my message...their attitude didn't change and the cussing was still heavily present. I don't have any ill feelings for this person but I would appreciate it if someone besides myself and that fan understand what's going on and express their view because I don't believe I did anything wrong and I sure as hell didn't deserve to be cussed out like that and being called names like "ugly fucktard","fucking fat cocksucking mother fucker","u stupid fucking cocksucker".....all these childish things and I have never ever cussed that fan out because prior to them messaging me,I had no idea who they were therefore there was no reason for me to offend them.(regardless there's no justifying personally insulting someone PERIOD)

I won't name the fan that did this because its up to them to respond and post on this pick(which I really hope they do cause I really want to understand why they did what they did) I still have the messages on the inbox in case that fan lies about what happened.

ANYWAYS for whoever read all of this...thank you! Its no surprise that this comment is long(because well I'm sooo craaazy!)lol...but I'll appreciate anyone who could reply and voice their opinion.(which includes the fan I'm referring to)
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Dansea08 said:
UPDATE:I just let that fan know about this pick I posted in case she didn't come across it on her own.(by sending them a message and posting this link)
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TrustInstincts picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
I don't think your comment is offensive to...anyone unless 'clay and quinn' were to read it and have a complete bitch fit and I don't think you deserved that bashing

It does, however, sound like this one chick awhile ago that whenever someone said anything other than 'I LOVE QUINN, I LOVE CLAY/QUINN, I LOVE SHANTEL' then she'd bitch them out

It's completely fucked up so yes, they were way out of line and no, you didn't deserve that rude behavior.
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LaPiccolaFra picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
You aren't attacking a fan directly. You just express your personal opinion. If a fanpopper doesn't agree, he/she shouldn't send you that kind of messages. I mean, this person doesn't even know you and felt free to insult you in every possible way? It's not fair to a person who just stated a PERSONAL opinion and who didn't attack any shipper of Clay/Quinn. This is a site where you can freely say what you think (without attacking someone/something or bashing a ship/carachter heavily, which you didin't do) and if a person don't like what you wrote, should just get over it and not sending these kind of messages!
You didn't deserve that.
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Dansea08 said:
Thank you TrustInstincts and LaPiccolaFra for your opinions.
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Oh. It's funny how crazy CQ fans are when they've only been together for less than 1 season. I always get mail from hating Quinn/CQ but I just smile and report them. :)
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Jennx picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
You aren't attacking a fan directly. you just express your personal opinion.

I Agree with ALL the comments. You haven`t insulted a fan , you just don`t like the certain character and you wrote you opinnion. You didn`t bashed anyone, which is important. AND My opinnion is that whoever fan is shouldn`t react like that.
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Team_Brooke picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
Nothing left to say. I definitely agree with everyone - don't let the messages take you down. report the user and block him. There's no need to feel bad or confused. You have the right to express your opinion (whether it's bad or good). However, the other user doesn't have the right to offend you.
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Jessica4695 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
i agree with everyone here.
some people just come here and spread there " love " for a [sometimes annoying] couple.
this fan overreacted completly
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gracery picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
Wow. You definitely didn't do anything wrong. You gave your OPINION - it's not fact, it's not set in stone. Obviously people are going to have different opinions about things... it's just how it goes. Even if you don't understand someone's opinion, you have to respect it. You can't flip out every time someone says something negative about a couple you love.

For some reason, a lot of people don't understand this. And think that any time anything negative is said about a couple, it's ~BASHING!!11! No. Not always. Sometimes people are just stating an opinion... like you were.
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Rolemodel2011 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
Seriously don't worry about it!
Some people are just kinda immature and crazy like that haha.
You obviously didn't do anything wrong. :)
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sb631 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
just read your comment and it was totally fine.
You were just answering the pick/question posted and giving your thoughts on that couple.
I agree with everyone, you did nothing wrong. They shouldn't have sent a message like that to you.
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Kirkir said:
Oh, you don't have anything to worry about!
You just gave your opinion, everyone has a right to do that ;)
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Dansea08 said:
Thank you all for your replies!
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Shanice_12 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
Just report the bitch, I already did it for ya, she'll be banned in no time, this has happened several times before and it's probably the same fan...pff!
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kellyerin87 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
Haha i'm sorry... but it's really hard to take users like that seriously. People who get THAT defensive over fictional TV couples just flat out need to get a life.

And trust me, I've seen plenty of other people complain about that user too... and I won't even get into my own personal opinions about them. I've reported them, and I know other people have too. So don't stress about it, you won't be seeing that user around fanpop for much longer lol
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livexthexlife92 picked ok,I'll read the komentar and see if I can help:
you didnt do anything wrong. that person is obviously mentally unbalanced lmfao.
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