I just don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why haven't experienced real cinta yet? Why do boys not want to be with me? Why hasn't he come to me?

Your only sixteen, anda have your life ahead of anda to find your true love, right now anda should enjoy being single and a teen, anda sound like a great person and im sure anda will find an amazing guy, but wait for him he will come, your still young
This is not the time to start looking for the real cinta because in truth girls maybe ready for that but us guys arent yet, no offense to any other dudes but we're not mature enough, you'll be better off with a guy who knows whats going on, and im 100% possitive many people think anda are beautiful, anda just dont know it yet :)
But really first loves are hard

Trust me, there is NOTHING wrong with you. You're young! Everyone has someone out there. You'll find him! As for now, enjoy being single! Enjoy being FREE!

Don't worry, eventually, your SOUL MATE will come along, you'll just have to go through a few jerks before that, we all will. Just don't give up faith and keep searching for love!

dont be that worried, anda are just 16, your life is just starting, someday that guy anda are dreaming with will apear and that hari i can bet it will worth the wait

we're in the same perahu i'm jst a tahun older then u.

Stop looking for real love. Experience has taught me that if you're looking really hard, you're probably not going to find it. It will find you. Just go about anda life and forget about love. Yeah, that sounds weird, but cinta was the absolute last thing on my mind when "Mr. Perfect" came my way. Don't stress out about it, everything will turn out ok. :) It may take time, it took years for me, but everything will turn out ok. :)

anda are sixteen. I am eighteen, and I've been asked out once but I turned him down. You'll find someone; it doesn't have to be yet. I'm not worried. I won't tanggal until I feel something different than what I've felt for all my guy friends. Don't go looking for it. When it's the real thing, you'll know.

I have the same situation too. :(

look....itz had nothing 2 do 4 being strange atau had something wrong with u...i mean alawys had the think that these guys u felt something towards them if theyy will be with u they will break ur jantung ...alawys belive that all of ur smart and sweety personalitiyy and 4 sure ur romantic power are just keeped 4 the one.the one that cinta u adore u and he will scrafiee antyhing 4 u...and that guy gonna appear somedayy and who knows maybe these hari is todayy.and all the boys r bad 4 not having honest girl like u.alawyss belive wth the dayy u gonna see ur cinta in and he is waiting 4 u sa well.i amd telling u these as result of expraince that iam really waiting 4 ma real cinta that gonna appear one dayy,,had the think that theyy r the wrong guys 4 not being in a relation with u not you..belive in ur self.and donnot think 4 one menit that ur different caz certainlyy ur the best....plzz alawys belive in these.good luck <333

hmm, sounds like anda and me are kinda similar. I'm 16 too, and I've never been asked out :( It's not to do with looks (some guys have actually called me pretty) but it's just that I'm really shy and I'm not 'out there' like other girls, that's why they're not noticing me =/ and I'm a huge romantic too!
I guess the time will come some hari for the both of us. Patience is a virtue after all :)

I have the same problem girl. It's not you. Sometimes it takes tiome to find someone who will cinta you. Just don't always focus on finding cinta cuz then anda won't find it. But that doesn't mean to stop beleiving! If anda keep up hope, you'll find it, and if anda really want it, you'll get it!

It will take time though, your still young! anda got your whole life ahead of you, don't trash it away cuz anda can't find love. While anda wait for it to come, do the things that make anda happy. Who cares if other people are getting into relationships! anda should be happy that at the present moment anda don't have to worry about a guy to please. Most chicks give so much attention to their boyfriends that they forget about everything else, wich sucks! So focus on the present and don't think about the futur. Your time will come. Maybe not now, but someday for sure!!!!

Oh and about the ''I've also never been kissed'' thing, I'm gonna repeat something that a friend right here on fanpop told me. It's better to wait for a while for your first ciuman than have it with some asshole right? (ok, she didn't say it like that, but close enough). So live ur life and someone will notice anda for being anda and fall for you. Guarantee!!!;)

it is quite common to not find cinta untill anda are older, there is nothing wrong with you. some people dont have thier first ciuman till a little later and that is just fine.

if anda want a boyfriend, anda could try just putting yourself out there a lil lebih and talking to the guys anda like and giveing some of the guys that ask anda out a chance. they may suprise you.

I don't believe that there's anything wrong with anda especially if there were a few guys that had already asked anda out. To be honest, anda should really give them a chance

You're sixteen years old, anda still have years to come to find that special someone because it definitely takes time. Shoot, I remember when my ex-boyfriend started talking to me that I honestly didn't want to give him a chance att all 'cause I actually believed that he was like the rest that I've came across. Of course he'd proven me right four years later when I found out that he was engaged to someone else. That was the end of that and that's the reason why I am not in a rush to be in a relationship.

The right guy will come along for you, but anda just have to be patient. Get out there and tanggal guys, tampil them that anda are worth being with(in a respectable way). When anda find that one guy, the key is not being clingy. Guys really really hate that and it pushes him away from you. Good luck, Kiddo!

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