when should i come out?

dont be scared, your parents are there to support anda and if they dont like who anda are then that's really sad. and i understand why your keeping it from your dad, but maybe your mom will understand better. this is not my choice but what (btw im bi 2) i did was just tell my mom and asked her to tell my dad in the best way she could. odds are he will be proud that anda decided to let him no even though your mom told him. but if u dont want to do this let me no in a letter atau dinding post and i will give anda any lebih saran i can think of cuz i really hate it when people are stuck in situations like this! so here is my profil link and get back to me if anda can www.fanpop.com/fans/mollymayjr

at 14 i don't think that anda can actually be sure of your sexuality, i think that every teenager feels confusion about their sexuality at some point, later in life anda may find yourself only attracted to one gender

at 14 anda shouldn't be in such a rush to label yourself but if anda feel that anda are absolutley certain then the only answer i can give to your pertanyaan is whenever anda feel comfortable enough to "come out"

anda should come out when the time feels right. Don't try to rush it; just do it if and when you're "feeling it".

I happen to know for a fact that my parents would be supportive because I asked them if they would be okay if I were gay, bi, etc. Try bringing it up casually in a conversation with your dad first and get his reaction. If he is strongly against homo/bisexuality, anda may not want to come out yet. Parents have kicked their son/daughter out of the house for being gay atau bi. anda may want to take that into consideration first.