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lebih of an saran pertanyaan rather than a technical fanpop problem - There's this user who keeps messaging me, and I'd like her to stop. How do I do this politely so she won't get mad at me atau laporan me?

We used to talk fine, but lately she's just been irritating. She tells me to watch her video that she's made, on things I've never even heard of, and if I politely tell her I'm not interested she persists, and persists, and persists! If I don't reply to her within about 10 minutes, she'll constantly message me saying "Where'd anda go?" One time it was an emergency and I had to log off right away without telling her, and she got really angry, even when I told her I had to go. I don't want to be rude, atau ignore her, I'm scared she'll pester me with lebih messages, atau maybe even laporan me, plus I don't want to hurt her feelings. I just want some suggestions on how to get her to stop messaging me, please, any ideas?
 spikes_girl posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Cinders said:
Well, in this situation, anda seem to have done step one: Politely ask her to stop. Since that clearly didn't work, you're going to have to pindah on to step two. Insistently ask her to stop.

It sounds like her behavior is verging on spam. Make it clear that anda like her, but that fanpop is not a giant chat room. Tell her that if she wants to chat with other fanpop users, she can use the chat rooms on the main site atau the ones in various populer spots. But make it abundantly clear that anda do not want to receive these spammy messages from her. Define what spam is, and explain that anda would just like to be removed from her mailing list. Explain that anda still want to be her friend-- anda just don't want all these emails from her constantly.

IF she gets mad about this, and/or torments anda atau yells at anda about it, then start to ignore her. A friendship works both ways. If she's not willing to cooperate, than there's nothing to be done.

If it gets REALLY bad (IE, if anda ignore her and she doesn't go away), laporan her. Because then it's just plain rude.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Thank anda so much Cinders! This has just been bugging me for so long, I'm glad to finally have the confidence to tell her. I've sent the message, I am awaiting her reply. Thank anda so much again.
spikes_girl posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Update: Received her reply, all is well. Thanks again for the help Cinders.
spikes_girl posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Bless you, Cinders.
DalekSec posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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