Well I've been watching the Vampire Diaries from season 1 again, just to refresh my memory and remind me of everything that has happened and it has become quite clear to me (more clear than before I re-watched it) than Stelena is just not a realistic couple and that Delena is.
Reason 1 would be that Stelena got together in 2 episodes and that is completely rushed. Any good and loving relationship with deep feelings would have waited at least 4 atau 5 episodes before getting together to make sure that they actually have proper feelings for eachother. Like with Delena even after they realised they had feelings for eachother they kept it a secret and waited.
Reason 2 would be that Stefan always thinks Elena is right and lets her do stuff even if she is completely wrong and may be putting herself and her friends in danger. Damon on the other hand would try and prevent her from doing something dangerous because he loves her and she is one of the most important things in the world to him. That is true love. Even if it makes her hate him (although she could never hate him for long) he will do it because her being alive is lebih important than her loving him.
Reason 3 would be that Stelena hardly ever fight with eachother, I mean what couple never fights atau argues sometimes. It is completely unrealistic. If anda don't fight atau argue it will prove that although anda are not saying it anda still have thoughts that the other person would not like. Delena does fight and argue sometimes, not anything to hectic though, but they still do and that makes them understand eachother better and agree on stuff that Stelena would never get to agree on because they are not sharing their thoughts that the other person wouldn't like.
Reason 4 would be that when Stelena is together they are all sweet-sweet with eachother which means they do have feelings for eachother, but definitely not as much feelings as Delena has. When Delena are together on those few occasions they are so much lebih passionate and loving. That proves that their feelings go deep and as much as Elena tries to squash them, they will never go away, they will just come back stronger than before.
Reason 5 would be that Damon has loved her right from the beginning when he first saw her (and that was before Stefan). Stefan has loved her from the beginning as well, but he always had her and that makes it much easier to cinta someone. If it was reversed and Damon had her first there would be no way that Stefan would cinta her all the way through Damon and Elena being together. Damon's feelings are so strong that he will never be able to give up those feelings that he has for her and no matter what happens he will always cinta her, unlike Stefan.
So that is my summary of reasons why I think Delena is so much lebih realistic than Stelena. Oh and another reason would be that Stelena was together in the beginning and any good TV series would not have the couple that was first together together at the end as well.
Thanks for reading, I hope anda enjoyed it! ;)
Miranda
