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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend atau even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing atau being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND cinta BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow sup opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


 NoahFanNumber1 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age atau dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when anda should atau shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, anda should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to anda later and if not, that's still okay too.
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posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu 
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Great answer. I agree.
Moonbeam1953 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much cinta and romance in school and wait until your done.
anda can focus lebih on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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true, true. thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My friends would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves anda soo much and anda don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, atau maybe your scared people are gonna find out who anda like, atau nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
TotalDramaChick posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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^I like both :) thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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You're welcome :)
TotalDramaChick posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any lebih I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless anda are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its anda and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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almuno01 said:
Dont worry lol same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah anda can date.
14 idk anda should wait til 16
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CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says anda have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like anda at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now lol xD
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Thats hard when anda can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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Very true .__.
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wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because anda can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on anda and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If anda like someone and they don't like anda back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who anda can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and anda should feel proud that anda haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who anda are, atau your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who anda are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' oleh your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that anda won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. anda probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who anda are. This is a wonderful time, where anda actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always akting like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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