Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get komentar like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad atau harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things anda can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because anda might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. anda should be careful with gay jokes, atau don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than anda do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get komentar like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad atau harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things anda can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because anda might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. anda should be careful with gay jokes, atau don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than anda do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
Many people feel that cinta hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell anda the truth...love won't do that. cinta is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your hari is anda still find a reason to smile because anda feel like anda have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah anda may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell anda something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is anda can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument atau what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give saran to those people who lost someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if anda truly loved them anda would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. anda will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give anda peace at mind. Dream Big. cinta Forever. Live like today is your last day
my problem is that my parents don't understand me well , and I don't see my bigger sister
i have a little sister , but i can't relate to her , and i have an older brother who helps me a lot but not enough.
i'm always depressed and i just listen to music all the time , actually music helps me a lot to express my anger , sadness , happiness .
i really Love Avril Lavigne because she is the only person who helped me in hard time , her music is so inspiring And meaningful .
and then , i have you fanpop users , you are my only family , my only friends , and my only hope.
so , please tell me what can i do to get rid of the negativity .
Thanks for your time,
Tamara