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I'm not too confident in myself...

The reason I say this is because I feel I'm not a good enough person. I feel like I'm an awful person to everyone. People say I'm nice, but I don't feel nice enough, ya know. I feel like people rather be with anyone but me. I feel boring. I feel I'm too quiet unless I'm with my parents atau my aunt. I feel my laugh is too weird, and that's why I try not to joke around because eventually, I do laugh and it ends up sounding... creepy. Hardly anyone even tries to speak to me except my friend back at school. He's the only one I can actually talk to about anything, but... I don't know. I just want to be a better person. I want lebih people to like me and actually want to talk to me...

...How do I create a better me? I'll give pujian to the ones who answer. :)

Thanks if anda answer. I'll appreciate it a lot. <3
 VelvParkk posted lebih dari setahun yang lalu
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MineTurtle5 said:
I know it's easier berkata than done, but just be yourself. And don't worry about what other people think of you. Just overlook your flaws. Learn to accept yourself just the way anda are.

Trust me, if anda do this, anda will be a lebih confident person.
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Thunderhorse007 said:
Two words: Mad Swag. Swagger comes from within; anda can't expect to please everyone. Just be yourself. Have a great sense of humor (but don't laugh obnoxiously), if anda don't like your laugh try to change it to a chuckle. I laugh loud and proud, and I could not care less about what people think. anda can't be a shadow, not associating with anybody. Get out! Meet new people, explore new things. Express your opinions without a care in the world; just put it to them nicely. I talk a little too much, I can be weird sometimes, I overconfident, and everybody loves me. I'm one of the most populer kids in school because of my personality; so why not you? Get out there and tampil them your stuff!
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xXxJDloverxXx said:
anda sound a lot like me...

It seems like anda have low self esteem and maybe some depression from this, anda sound quite self conscious around people and what they think of you, you're probably a really nice/fun person, but anda let the consciousness take over and that makes anda think you're not a nice person, the people that try to speak to anda are probably the same, they WANT to speak and start a conversation but it can be hard to do as it's hard to just randomly speak lots about acak things sometimes, maybe find something that anda and another person have in common (like maybe anda both like the same TV show) and talk about that, atau anda could gabung a few klub that you're interested in (like a Sports club atau something) then you'd definitely have something in common there!
anda could try doing Volunteering, anda meet loads of new people at events and stuff plus you'd feel better about yourself knowing you've helped someone else.

Everyone probably thinks anda are a very nice person, anda just need to convince yourself! =)
Hope this helped a bit.
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AlOoOosh said:
-No one in this world is good enough , but anda must cinta yourself , and that's how anda make other people cinta anda .

-People who blame themselves and say they aren't good enough are probably very good people , because that represents that anda have feelings and anda judge yourself when anda do something wrong :)

-Don't anda worry about your laugh , anda can change it .
Let me tell anda a secret , once I had a really weird laugh , but I've changed into a better one :)
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
anda know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get friends is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom anda are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if anda feel confident and strong anda will pick up friends a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how anda feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied oleh a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at oleh them! not to long yang lalu i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if anda need lebih friends ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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anda know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get friends is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom anda are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if anda feel confident and strong anda will pick up friends a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how anda feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied oleh a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at oleh them! not to long yang lalu i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if anda need lebih friends ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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