HELP

Okay. There are two types of protective: the good kind and the bad kind.

Good kind: for example, doesn't want anda to do drugs cause he doesn't want anda to ruin your future.

Bad kind: for example, doesn't want anda to hang out with any guy friends, wants anda to spend lebih time with him and less time with your other friends, wants anda to quit sports atau klub cause you're "neglecting" him.

So it really depends on the situation. Now if he's getting so protective to the point that he's scaring you, that a BAD BAD thing.

I know anda probably don't care about my similar experience, but I used to have this boyfriend named Brad who was bipolar. He would freak out cuz I was just talking to other guys. He'd randomly get angry at me for things that weren't my fault (like not calling him back because I was busy studying). He'd always like interrogate me like "where were anda last night?" "who were anda with?" I got so sick of it that I finally broke up with him. He practically begged to get me back but I was done. I wouldn't take him back. Then like a bulan later I got a new boyfriend. Brad got so angry and tried to beat up my new boyfriend. I'm so glad now that I got away from him.

So basically, here's my point: there's a BIG difference between protectiveness and posessiveness (like he wants to control what anda do and whom anda hang out with).

Lastly, if you're only with this guy cause he's "hot" that's NOT a good enough reason to stay with him. My advice: end the relationship before things become too serious and before he has a chance to try and control you.

That depends on what it is anda are involved in. It might be a bad thing and that's why he's so overprotective. However, if it's not than it means that he really likes you, but if anda think that this is too much worrying from him than anda need to tell him to give anda your space. Also if anda only like him because he is hot than perhaps you're not into him for the right reason. It's still obvious that anda guys are totally into each other so i would try to work it all out, like promise to be lebih carefull and he promises to not overreact. If it EVER goes past only scaring anda (And even that is already bad) than anda need to leave him. You're in a relationship to be happy, not to be afraid

My boyfriend does the same.i like it when he punches someone and his kemeja gets torn..;p;p;p;p;p
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