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Should I block him?

He's this really creepy guy I met at camp, who wouldn't leave me alone, kinda stalked me around the camp to the point where it was like, "Um... personal space? Can I please actually walk somewhere atau talk to someone without anda standing over my shoulder? Can anda not plant yourself in front of me so anda can just stare at me?" It was REALLY creepy. But I felt kinda bad for him, so when he friend requested me on Facebook, I accepted.

But I'm thinking that wasn't so smart of me now.

First, I know for a fact that he likes me, atau at least as much as a person can know that somebody else likes them. (He told me he likes me, and I rejected him. He's too creepy.) So he knows that I'm Jewish, though he never revealed his religion to me. Today, I was talking to him, and the conversation went like this (this is copy-and-pasted from the facebook Chat):

Him: I just got back from a class at my temple for confirmation (Note: he berkata this without me asking. I just berkata hi and he kinda randomly wrote this)

Me: um, they dont hav confirmation in judaism... and temples are jewish...

(A significant period of no response...)

Him: Its a different kind of confirmation

Me: oh? wat is it?

(Another significant period of no response...)

Him: I dont know. All we do is discuss jew things

At this point I berkata "brb" with no intent of returning to talk to him. I was kind of insulted oleh this, and I really pissed off about it (and I still am). I'm considering blocking him. Do anda think I should just forget about it? atau do anda think I'm right and I should block him? (Just making sure I'm not overreacting...)
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dreamfields said:
I am behind the times and have not gotten into facebook yet. I do believe in being aman, brankas and comfortable. I would unfriend him, block him atau whatever it takes.
I agree with anda that this guy sounds creepy. I would not do anything to encourage him. Put it another way anything he might take as a sign anda interested.
Now I am Christian, not Jewish. His komentar about "jew things" says alot. He's either a biggot atau an idiot. I see all types of red flags.
I would err on the side of caution and try to stop
any atau all contact. If he persists, anda may want to get outside help. I don't know how old anda are,
so anda could talk to a school counselor atau get saran from a police officer.
Forgive me if I sound a bit overboard, but I am protective at heart. I don't think we really know where this guy's head is at atau what he might do.
Just want anda to be aman, brankas and at peace. God bless.
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I was thinking about what I wrote and thought I might of come accross to strong. This boy has a problem and needs help. I hope he gets help. I just wanted anda to know that I don't think anda are the person who can give it to him. I've seen this type of situation before and an innocent person becomes a victim. Take care.
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I agree with your answer.
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juniper427 said:
I'm kind of mean about facebook but if anda don't consider him a friend just unfriend him. I only accept friend request if they are the kind of people I would stop and talk to in the halls. that may seem overly selective to some people but I want to feel conferrable posting thing I care about.
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Sugar-N-Spice said:
You're not overreacting. This is creepy. And that confirmation thing was an obvious lie. I'd remove and block him.
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jeftelover said:
tell the guy to shut the fuck up and
block him!trust me girl,you will feel better
after anda do that.:)
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
Honestly, he doesn't sound right in the head, and if he makes anda uncomfortable, anda shouldn't put his needs first. He doesn't sound like a good guy, so before anything goes too far, atau he does something worse, anda need to block him for your safety.
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